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book Reviews

New Journeys Now Begin by Tom Gordon. Pub Wild
Goose Publications, ISBN 1 9050 1008 7, £10.99
Grief and loss
are a major part of living yet most of the population are unprepared for
the eventuality. In a society where the Christian church has lost much
of its credibility with regard to connecting with peoples spirituality,
it is encouraging to know that in the area of loss, grief and
bereavement we are waking up to the task of meeting people were they
are.
It is humbling to read the stories of patients and families coming to
terms with loss, and recognising the unpredictable journey of
bereavement in Tom Gordons book New Journeys Now Begin. As an
experienced Hospice Chaplain he reminds us that grief, bereavement and
loss are not an event, nor an illness to be treated, nor a problem to be
solved, but a personal journey which stretches our imagination,
resources, and emotional well-being. Toms chapters reflect this in
honest insight through prose and comment. This book is not just for
those who are experiencing grief and loss but also for those of us who
work alongside the dying and bereaved on a daily basis. I for one am
glad to have this book on my bookshelf alongside Toms first offering A
Need for Living.

The Early Days
of Grieving by Derek Nuttall. Pub Darton, Longman & Todd, pp77, ISBN
0232526443, £5.95
The new edition
of The Early Days of Grieving by Derek Nuttall is welcome. Aimed at
those experiencing bereavement, small, well-defined paragraphs and
chapters enable those grieving to seek the help and assurance they need
easily. Recommended as a simple, straightforward book for those who have
lost a loved one.

Insight into
Bereavement by Wendy Bray & Diana Priest. Pub CWR, pp128, ISBN 1
85345 385 4, £7.50
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this book from the CWR Website click here
Insight into
Bereavement by Wendy Bray and Diana Priest is aimed at those helping
people through bereavement. This book comes with biblical case studies
as well as personal perspectives into some key issues surrounding the
journey of bereavement. Chapter three on the stages of loss contained
some very thought-provoking spreadsheets, which give a holistic
understanding of the overall effects of bereavement. It also focuses on
support networks that can be accessed as official help lines. It moves
easily from information to personal stories, encompassing all loss from
death to divorce. As well as being informative it is also a spiritual
handbook, a handy and resourceful book to have on the shelf.

Poppies and
Snowdrops by Andrew Pratt and Marjorie Dobson. Pub Methodist
Publishing House, pp150, ISBN 1 85852 307 8, £9.99
Poppies and
Snowdrops is a book of prose. Andrew Pratt is a Methodist minister and
an internationally known hymn writer who has teamed up with Marjorie
Dobson, a Methodist local preacher and hymn writer to produce this
lovely book. The book focuses on grief and loss. Each page is based on
real situations and is offered to thos who live with the reality of
death. As you might expect, there are offerings of music alongside the
prose, as well as a funeral liturgy for those who may not have
experience of religious faith. This service is particularly moving and
innovative and one I will be using in the future in my work as a hospice
chaplain. This book also offers inter-faith resources. The book is a
wonderful reminder that each individual is unique and of value to God. I
value this books contribution and would recommend it to you.
Ministers have long since recognised that peoples needs with regard to
liturgy and ceremonies surrounding loss require them to develop more
personal forms rather than the one size fits all of the past. Our own
URC Service Book reflects this development with more than one type of
funeral service available.

Complete Book
of Funeral Planning, Readings & Music by Rachel Johnstone-Burt, Alison
Gibbs and the Revd John Wynburne. Pub Foulsham, pp256, ISBN
0-572-03058-4 , £9.99
New resources in
this area are always welcome and the Complete Book of Funeral Planning,
Readings and Music by Rachel Johnstone-Burt, Alison Gibbs and the Revd
John Wynburne, gives a comprehensive overview such resources, from a
funeral planning check list to suggestions for music, with a wide
selection of suitable readings for personal or funeral use. It deals
with socio-domestic issues such as probate, wills, bank accounts and the
everyday complexities of loss. This book will help you to make
arrangements for yourself or another. A clear and informative resource
to help deal with both the practical and emotional issues that surround
death.
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